THE 90 DAY PROGRAMME

The Homecoming Reset™

Programme Overview

The Homecoming Reset™ is a 90-day 1:1 programme for women who drink more than they want to in the evenings, and are ready to finally change that.

It’s built specifically for capable, midlife and retired women who are tired of waking up with regret and want their evenings back.

No groups. No pressure. No shame.

Just expert guidance, calm structure, and tools that actually work.

Who This Is For

You’re a smart, capable woman who:

– Drinks most evenings, even when you don’t want to
– Feels undone by 6 pm, despite holding it together all day
– Has promised “not tonight” more times than you can count
– Feels stuck, ashamed, and ready for a real change
– Wants support that’s intelligent, private, and emotionally safe

If that’s you, this programme was built for exactly where you are.

Why Evenings Feel Out of Control

This isn’t about willpower. Evening drinking is driven by:

– Cognitive fatigue
– Perimenopause and hormones
– The emotional and mental load
– The pressure of always being ‘on’
– A lifetime of showing up for everyone but yourself
Your brain isn’t asking for alcohol. It’s asking for relief. This programme helps you give it what it really needs.

What You’ll Learn

Across 90 days, you’ll:

– Understand the real reason you drink
– Break the ‘evening habit loop’
– Learn to manage triggers before they escalate
– Calm your nervous system and steady your evenings
– Rebuild trust in yourself
– Decide how alcohol fits into your future — if at all
– Create new ways to rest, reset, and cope without alcohol

What’s Included

12 Weekly 1:1 Sessions — private, confidential, and tailored
Early-Phase Daily WhatsApp Support — for the toughest part

Personalised CBH — 70% more effective than CBT alone
Practical Tools — session-by-session strategies
Structured Review — clarity on your goals and progress
Long-Term Check-ins — 3, 6, and 12-month follow-up

Why This Works

Most women I work with have tried to cut down. It never stuck.

Here’s why this works:

– It’s 1:1 — no group pressure, no performative sharing
– It’s psychologically grounded — this isn’t guesswork
– It works at the identity level — not just behaviour
– It rebuilds trust in yourself — the key to lasting change
– It meets you where you are — not where someone else thinks you should be

Rebecca Thomson, helping women changing their relationship with alcohol, food or nicotine, help with alcoholism, reducing alcohol, how to stop drinking, woman dependant on alcohol, Registered Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapist based in the Forest of Dean in Gloucestershire, Andy Ramage, alcohol free lifestyle

Why this programme works

(When everything else hasn’t)

Women tell me:

“I’ve tried cutting down — it never sticks.”

“I can stop… I just don’t.”

“I tried white-knuckling it. It didn’t work.”

“I don’t want to go to AA. That’s not me.”

“I don’t want a label.”

“I don’t want to be in a group.”

This programme works because:

It’s private

It’s expert-led

It addresses the real reason you drink

It rebuilds self-trust

It works at the identity level

It’s designed for women who live complex, demanding lives

You’re not “failing.”
You’ve been using tools that were never built for you.
This one is.

Why women trust me with this work:

Because I’ve lived this pattern myself, and changed it.

Because I understand the emotional load women carry.

Because I’m trained in the UK’s only Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy
course accredited by the British Psychological Society.

I educate.

I steady.

I lead with clarity.

This isn’t just my work — it’s my mission.

Your next step:

If this is where you are, it’s time to talk properly.

A call isn’t a commitment. It’s clarity.
You’ll get space to talk openly about:

Your evenings

What you’re carrying

What feels hard

What you want to change

Whether The Homecoming Reset™ is the right next step

Women tell me:

“I didn’t realise how much shame I was carrying until it was gone.”

“I’ve never felt this calm in the evening.”

“This changed more than just my drinking — it changed how I feel about myself.”

If you’re ready for things to feel different…
If you’re tired of waking up regretting the night before…
If you want to stop fighting yourself…

I’m here. Let’s get you started.

let's talk
Rebecca Thomson, helping women changing their relationship with alcohol, food or nicotine, help with alcoholism, reducing alcohol, how to stop drinking, woman dependant on alcohol, Registered Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapist based in the Forest of Dean in Gloucestershire, Andy Ramage, alcohol free lifestyle